Sympathy Etiquette

There are quite a few areas of sympathy etiquette that all of us are unsure of at one time or another.

It is hard to know what to say in expressing sympathy. What words of comfort for sympathy can we use? How do you know what to say or maybe more important what not to say to someone coping with loss?

How can you provide comfort to the bereaved? We need practical tools to know the best ways to offer support and healing.

What do you include in a sympathy card or letter? Are you at a loss for words?

What is proper sympathy flower etiquette? What kinds of flowers do you send? What size arrangement? Do you buy as an individual or go in as a group?

After the funeral, how do you write out the bereavement thank you notes? Do you have to write them all or can someone help you? Often the funeral home provides you with the cards.

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