Sympathy Card or Letter

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When writing a sympathy card or letter- relax – it doesn’t need to be difficult. Write as if you were talking to them face to face.

A good resource if you are unsure of yourself is “My Deepest Sympathies…Meaningful Sentiments for Condolence Notes and Conversation, Plus a Guide to Eulogies” by Florence Issacs.

When writing expressions of sympathy, here are some ideas of things to include.

  • Include the deceased loved ones name

  • Express your sympathy

  • Reflect on the bereaved’s loved one, what was special about them, maybe adding a favorite memory.

  • Offer to help the grieving person – what specific thing can you uniquely offer? -- See my Practical Help page - -

  • Close the bereavement card with affection and love

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Another book that might be helpful is;

- The Art of Condolence: What to Write, What to Say, What to Do at a Time of Loss - by Leonard M. Zunin and Hillary Stanton Zunin.

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