Funeral EtiquetteMost of us are unsure as to what is proper funeral etiquette.
Customs will vary - things like geographical location, ethnic background, and religious ties will influence the style of visitation and funeral.
Usually there is a visitation. Check the obituary in the newspaper for date and times. Also you can call the funeral home for information.
Generally visitations are held at funeral homes. This is a time to greet family members of deceased and pay last respects.
Make sure to sign the registry – so the family can read over it and remember who came. There can be a line of people waiting to speak to the bereaved family.
If the family would not know you well, be sure to identify yourself and how you know the deceased. It is not necessary to say a great deal. Just letting them know you care is key.
It is unnecessary to stay at the visitation for the entire time. Often many people will be waiting for their turn to pay respects to the family.
If the deceased is to be buried locally there might be a procession to the cemetery following the funeral. Be sure to turn on your lights. Then follow the hearse and other lead cars. There will be a short graveside service with another scripture reading.
Sometimes a funeral dinner will follow the services. It is often held at the church or occasionally at a restaurant.
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